UIN Malang: 5 Traits of Toxic People You Need to be Aware of

TIMESINDONESIA, MALANG – Some people will have toxic friend around them. These toxic friend commonly will only bring you some destructive behavior. They won't bring out the best in you. Dr. Elok Halimatus Sa'diyah, a psychology professor of UIN Malang has some word for you about it.

"We can no longer feel comfortable to stay around them. And they don't just delaying the good things grow in us," Dr. Elok Halimatus Sa'diyah, a psychology professor of UIN Malang said on Sunday (4/4/2021).

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According to Dr. Elok Halimatus Sa'diyah M.Si, there are 5 main traits you could recognize from those toxic friends. If you saw at least 3 of them you better create a boundary and keep away from them. Here are those 5 traits:

1. Difficult managing their anger

Being around people with difficulty to manage their anger is like walking on an egg shell. They could be mad over small things. Their behaviour makes you unable to talk to them in person.

2. Self-Centered

These toxic people love to have some attention from others. She exaggerate everything and make it into a drama. And all they want is everything about them, them, and them only.

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3. Manipulative

They will use the knowledge they gain about you to make you do what they want without considering how you feel about it. They don't want you to stand before them, or at least one step ahead before them. They would like you to always stay at your place, twisting every word you sat to tackle your way.

4. Negativity

Some people just can’t seem to see the good in life. They will find something bad about everything and aren’t able to find joy in anything. Being around someone like this can make it hard for you to enjoy yourself and be positive. 

5. Give you bad behavior

Toxic people will draw you to the dark side of life. They will just give you problem after problems. We are going to stuck in the dark if we didn't avoid them. They will be happy if we got stuck in it and will just cheer for it.

Elok ahalimatus, this psychology professor of UIN Malang suggests you leave this toxic friend immediately to try to find someone else who really do care about your existence and willing to support you and could bring you some positive things for your life. (*)

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